Confession is faith is about more than telling old secrets: it's about creating space for new life.
God loves your neighbor so much, that God gave you the law. And God loves you so much, that God gave your neighbor the same thing.
The commandments about "God and us" aren't about "people worship God in order to make God feel better"--they're about worshiping God to make us better people.
Sometimes our humanity gets in the way and people get hurt. Sometimes God uses our imperfections as opportunities to heal others. And sometimes it's both.
People are disposable--but only because they aren't. (listen and you'll understand)